luck of the draw

You’ve got to know when to hold ’em
Know when to fold ’em
Know when to walk away
And know when to run
You never count your money
When you’re sittin’ at the table
There’ll be time enough for counting
When the dealin’s done

The Gambler
Kenny Rogers

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(my husband trying the make the most of Tropical Storm Colin’s arrival when all others ran for cover/ Watercolor Resort, Santa Rosa, FL / Julie Cook / 2016)

There are many days that I am pretty certain that I’m married to Job.
You know, the Typhoid Mary of the Bible…
That lone figure everyone avoids like the plague as it seems God’s got it out for this poor lug.
He’s the Bible’s idea of a bullseyes,
while Satan enjoys a fun little game of darts…
As God’s watches silently in the distance…

Yet, one must wonder, is He all that distant…..?

And you know that expression…
if it wasn’t for bad luck, there’d be no luck at all….?
Well that sums up my husband’s life in a nutshell.

And not only did I marry a very unlucky man,
I bore him a child who has followed suit to a T.
As my husband resignedly notes that our son’s luck is just as bad, just as unfortunate and just as typical as his—that being abysmal.

If it can go wrong, it will.
If it can get worse, it will.
In a 50 50 shot on calling it, theirs will always be the wrong call.
What are the odds?
What is the luck?

And yet…
I for one do not hold on to such a notion…
despite often feeling the sting of a mother’s and wife’s frustration…
I am constantly reminding any and all gloomy Gus’s in my path that in Christianity,
there is no such thing as luck!
Nothing, absolutely nothing, has been left to chance in God’s book concerning His children.

When I was young I never liked reading or hearing about the Book of Job or even Revelation.
I found in both of those books everything and anything other than that
“peace which passes all understanding.”
Rather I found heartache, trials, turmoil, death, loss and
even the final separation of those fateful sheep and goats.

Both Books, both stories, scared me.
I didn’t want to know that side of God.
For in my young immature understanding, God was simply love and merciful,
end of sentence—
None of this wrathful, cold, distant business.
He was not this exacting God who could, in my opinion, turn His back and allow pain,
suffering and calamity.
God was love, right?
And love doesn’t let bad things happen….right?

Lord knows, I have seen my share of heartache and calamity these near 57 years.
Any one who has ever lost a loved one to a ravenous and non discriminating illness,
which seems to gleefully and eagerly snatch away prematurely those we love,
understands all too often the anger that can follow suit against this so called “merciful” God…

I shamefully admit to having had one too many defiantly angry fists raised,
more times than I care to mention, to God when I, as mother, wife, daughter, friend…
witnessed the catastrophic unfairness, when indiscriminate illness and or death,
or any other of life’s unfairnesses, had come calling.

Yet the key piece to this unsettling and often unfair and ironic puzzle is actually to be found in that very odd tale of our poor friend Job…
That single key piece being human understanding.

It is easy and quite human to rile in anger when we witness unfairness, pain, suffering, heartache…
Especially when we know that there is a God, as Father, who loves His children…as we are even told that if we who are “evil” parents know how to give good things to our children, then how much more can the God of heaven who is pure goodness and love give…..
yet here is this loving Father demonstrating anything but love…
But what we don’t get, don’t understand…He’s not the doing these things…

As we live life in that role of helpless witness, time and time again, to the sadistic unfairness of this thing we call life….as our anger, resentment, frustration and even defiance continues to mount against an unseen God who we so wrongly blame for all of life’s tragedies, as the dust settles, we begin to see that our friend Job slowly, mysteriously and miraculously understood…
He understood that which we are currently blind to see…
for Job once stood where we stand now—in that place of helpless victim to the tragic luck of life.

We sit in our towers of self-righteous human knowledge presuming to see all and know all…
that is until something catastrophic throws us the guaranteed monkey wrench.
Tragedy strikes and more often then not, we wrestle with its presence and devastating aftermath.

But what we must know, must claim, is that it is God who sees and knows, not us.
He sees endlessly out before us, long into our futures.
Just as He has seen our past and our present.
He sees into the lives of all involved and into the lives of those who are to each be affected despite our having no knowledge of their involvement…yet.

His is the grander picture.
The greater and far reaching picture.
The vision that eclipses both time and space—of which we are permanent prisoners.

So no…there is no such thing such as luck….not with God.
Rather just Life lived in a fallen and broken world.
Just as there is also our hope, our grace and thankfully….
our salvation….

“I know that You can do all things, and that no purpose of Yours can be thwarted. I had heard of You by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees You, therefore I despise myself, and repent in dust and ashes.”
Job 42:2, 5-6

You will be secure, because there is hope;
you will look about you and take your rest in safety.

Job 11:18

10 comments on “luck of the draw

  1. atimetoshare.me says:

    I have a husband like yours. He is a wonderful Christian man and has a tremendous faith, but like Job, he falls apart when disaster strikes – even though he knows better. It shows his humanity I guess. I love Job’s story too because he didn’t listen to his well intentioned friends. He listened to God – especially when God put Job in his place and asked him where he was when all things were created by Him. Thanks for another wonderful post, Julie. I always look forward to our morning visits.

  2. DJ says:

    I remember the first time I really comprehended the book of Job. It just blew me away. I decided I never wanted to anger God to screaming at me for questioning his judgment. I call it up often in the midst of crisis. I’m like yep… not gonna make him mad. Lol

  3. These lines are pure genius!!! “We sit in our towers of self-righteous human knowledge presuming to see all and know all…
    that is until something catastrophic throws us the guaranteed monkey wrench.
    Tragedy strikes and more often then not, we wrestle with its presence and devastating aftermath.

    But what we must know, must claim, is that it is God who sees and knows, not us.
    He sees endlessly out before us, long into our futures.
    Just as He has seen our past and our present.
    He sees into the lives of all involved and into the lives of those who are to each be affected despite our having no knowledge of their involvement…yet.

    His is the grander picture.
    The greater and far reaching picture.
    The vision that eclipses both time and space—of which we are permanent prisoners.

    So no…there is no such thing such as luck….not with God.
    Rather just Life lived in a fallen and broken world.
    Just as there is also our hope, our grace and thankfully….
    our salvation….”

    And man did I need to read them tonight. As you know, I grapple daily with physical pain, and some days are worse than others like they been for weeks now. So sometimes I wonder why this has been my lot in life and if in fact the Lord has forsaken me. Though I know full well He has not, I’m only flesh and blood and grow weary and that’s when the evil one hits me with all his lies. Thanks for sharing this.
    Love and hugs, N 🙂 ❤

  4. This hits me in a big way. It is deeply moving, and I really needed to hear it. Thank you!

  5. We say that here too. Don’t believe in luck. And no such thing as coincidences. We call them Godincidences.
    What is it about Job and husbands? Got one of them here too!

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