“A spiritual Christian should welcome any burden which
the Lord brings his way.”
Watchman Nee
(a mini heard of donkeys per the world wide web)
The other day my aunt told me that there was a lady at her
church who is often heard to say that…
whereas she knows that God does not give us more than we can carry (or bear),
she just wished that He would not keep confusing her with a mule…
Mule, donkey…one half dozen or the other….
beast of burden none the less…
And might I add that I am feeling every ounce of the burden for which I am currently
bearing and wearing…
and then some….
Have you ever tried picking up a greased watermelon?
When I was a little girl, our neighborhood pool, as part of their fourth of July celebrations,
would grease a large watermelon then drop it into the deep end of the pool…
allowing it to bob up and down.
Next a whistle would blow and all the kids would dive into the pool.
swimming as fast as they could to the deep end,
as everyone would try their best to grab the watermelon…
desperately treading water while attempting to be the first one to shove the watermelon
up out of the pool.
It’s a wonder we didn’t all drown.
And no, I never could get a hold of the greased melon,
let alone push it out of the pool.
That long forgotten memory came racing back to the forefront of thought today
when dad decided he could no longer stand while the caregiver was trying
to get him showered off.
He did look rather pitiful today when I arrived…all slumped down in his hospital bed.
The caregiver told him that while I was there, we were going to get him in the shower,
clean him up and get his sheets changed.
I was assigned bed linen duty while the caregiver maneuvered Dad into the stand-up shower.
Dad was smelling really ripe and definitely needed a shower much to his consternation
as he was perfectly content slumped down in his oh so not fresh bed and pjs while watching Matlock.
Dad didn’t want to get up.
Dad is terribly lazy.
He is perfectly content just sitting and wallowing…
much like a pig…as he is perfectly content wallowing in the muck and mire that
makes up his little world of filth.
My grandmother would have an absolute fit if she could see him now…
as I somehow think that she would certainly not claim him…
and I know mother, who was looking down on us, would most likely be telling those
she’s met up in heaven that she has never seen that man before in her life…
or is that afterlife…anywhooo…..
Dad and the caregiver were in mid rinse as I was just finishing up the bed
when I heard a frantic call for my name.
It seems Dad decided that he just didn’t, or perhaps couldn’t, stand up any longer…
opting rather to gave up the ghost…
as he went down for the count…
sliding down along with the water working it’s way to the drain.
Have you ever tried picking up a greased watermelon?
Dad was a wet, slick bundle of pink flesh clumped on the floor of the shower
with the caregiver stuck in the corner behind him.
Steam was filling the small shower…
She was now soaked and he was listless.
More like dead, but not.
This while all of Dad’s bodily functions were now in full crisis mode..
It was a mess of epic proportions…
a terrible awful mess….
I don’t have an ACL in my right knee—an old football injury of long ago…
another story for another day…
but in a wet shower, with the water running
and shoes that are sliding while I’m trying to
lift a wet greased 170 pound watermelon…
a knee that will not hold fast only adds to the crisis.
And lets not forget I still have two ruptured discs in my back.
I now probably have two more….
We finally managed to get him up,
With me practically willing him up with my voice commands.
We wiped him down,
cleaned him up,
got him thankfully back in the fresh bed,
dried off,
and finally clothed…as best we could…
All the while my stepmother was in her room, door shut, sound asleep as she had not felt well,
none the wiser to the near 911 moment we were having in the shower.
By the time it came for me to thankfully head home, Dad, who was now clean and
was smelling so much nicer, was happily sitting propped up in his hospital bed,
happily munching on a chocolate covered doughnut wondering why the caregiver
and I seemed so stressed…
I really think God has me confused with an animal of immense burden….
Cast your burden upon the LORD and He will sustain you;
He will never allow the righteous to be shaken.
Psalm 55:22
I wasn’t quite sure where you were going with this until the greased watermelon resurfaced. LOL. I’m so grateful you can continue to find humor in your burdens. God will lift you up. He knows that you can handle a lot.
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Oh no! Praying for you to have strength and healing.
All I can say is that there are prayers for you!
God bless you, Julie, for honoring your father and providing him with such good care!
it’s a comedy of errors to be sure 🙂
You have a great, healthy sense of humor that helps you deal with this very trying time in your life! Thank you for sharing it with us!
It is so good that you have your since of humor although I’m sure some days it is harder to find than others. I’m surprised that there wasn’t a plastic shower stool for your father to sit on. I have one that I got for my mother in law for when she visited but I think I’ve used it more than she ever did because of broken bones I’ve had in the past.
Karen, dad is obviously a guinea pig as we seem to discover such things as say, shower seats, beside toilets, wheelchairs, all after the need has become obvious—in education we call that backwards by design—therefore making dad a “behind”… or shall we say his behavior a pain in my own…behind…
He fell again today and I had tried to tell this caregiver what has already happened earlier this week…Calgon take me away…to any of the beautiful hotels you are visiting 🙂
I’m sorry that you are both having to deal with all this…it shouldn’t have to be like that.
that’s why you have to enjoy a glass of rot wine for me—a Zweigelt from the Burgenland region—I have one bottle remaining—Umathum estate’s wine—
or a shot of woodka—the beautiful hotel in Vienna—Hotel Konig von Ungarn–offered us a shot each evening of their own fruit infused vodka—or of course a spritely glass of rot wine 🙂
drink up Karen—I need it 🙂
I can do that for you. 😀
that’s what I like to hear Karen, taking one for the team—don’t forget you might need two aspirin afterwards 🙂 HA!
😀
Wow what a description. Praying for you that the Lord will give you strength as you care for your dad.