“People of our time are losing the power of celebration.
Instead of celebrating we seek to be amused or entertained.
Celebration is an active state, an act of expressing reverence or appreciation.
To be entertained is a passive state–
it is to receive pleasure afforded by an amusing act or a spectacle….
Celebration is a confrontation,
giving attention to the transcendent meaning of one’s actions.

Abraham Joshua Heschel

(Dad’s cake / Julie Cook / 2017)

Over the years, I’ve read many tales of those who suffered in the death camps
of Nazi Germany.
I also have read a great deal about those who endured exile in the Soviet gulags.
Some of the stories end with liberation while many sadly, or perhaps poetically,
end in liberating death.

One key element that I’ve noticed over and over, that is evident in almost all of the
individual stories of those who endured the horrors of either form of death camp,
is the single element of either anticipatory hope or dejected hopelessness.

Those who chose to hold onto hope, did so in seemingly small, insignificant and almost
unnoticeable measures…

They would simply keep count.

They would count hours, days, weeks, months, years…
the counting of their own particular life’s moments…
Be it birthdays, anniversaries or any of their own personal life’s hurdles or goals…
anything of what life had been outside of the camps to them personally…
They would count and look forward…
forward toward what normal had been….
and holding on to that normal.

Notches were marked on walls, small prayers were silently said as hymns or songs were
privately sung…
As some semblance of recalling and holding onto the marking of these personal moments
could actually keep life sane…
It is what helped those tortured souls hold onto that which was of sanity and routine…
that of life’s normalcy….
all the while as they were being held in the depths of brutal insanity.

There is a bittersweetness found in the holding onto of normalcy during those times
in our lives that are anything but normal.

Those of us who have watched loved ones slowly ebb away due to illness, disease, war, famine,
brutality, paralysis, or any other catastrophic thief understand the importance
of continuing to count.

For if we didn’t count,
if we didn’t hold onto,
if we didn’t hope…even in the face of a seemingly earthly hopelessness…
we would simply succumb to a sorrow so deep, so black and so bitter
that we would be lost to the abyss of utter nothingness…
all of which we would know would equate to utter despair.

One of the hardest bible verses to live out in life is found in the book of James.
(1 James 2….)
We are told to consider it “pure joy” when facing trails.

A seemingly impossible task that many a non-believer throughout time has relished
in taunting the faithful with the sneering
“what kind of loving God would tell you to find joy
in your suffering…other than a maniacally sick puppet master…”

And as it is seemingly impossible to do just that when one’s heart is in the midst of
being torn out of one’s chest….

We continue doing just that….

Because in part we know that what we’ve counted and held onto here in this life,
that which we have considered so dear and so precious…
is but a glimpse of what will be even more so…
once we are liberated and home….

So be we liberated in life or in death…either way…we the faithful…
count our milestones and choose to celebrate…

(this is a really good picture of Dad right now, the other shots look wretched…but there remains
a small twinkle and sly smile in this image)

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds,
because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.
Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete,
not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God,
who gives generously to all without finding fault,
and it will be given to you. But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt,
because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.

1 James 2-6

28 comments on “celebrations

  1. Reblogged this on Talmidimblogging and commented:
    Wonderfully made!!

  2. atimetoshare.me says:

    It’s hard to imagine that God has a plan in all of this, but He does. He’s definitely using your experience to give others hope. Hang in there, my friend. Happy birthday to your dad and I hope he enjoyed some of that lovely chocolate cake.

  3. Amen. Happy birthday to dad. What a lovely cake! That part about “consider it pure joy,” He means that, it’s true, you can bank on it, even when it’s hard to see.

  4. ColorStorm says:

    Well, one thing is certain, we can ‘count’ on your posts being full of life.

    Good stuff jewels. Nice man.

  5. Julie, how precious are these pictures. Thank you for sharing these. You are blessed. We did not have this pleasure or joy with my dad or mom, but as from James, our joy was in the Lord during those times. Have a blessed week-end. ~ Fran

  6. Citizen Tom says:

    I have heard people express how they want to die. Done it myself. But we don’t get much of a choice. We don’t even get much of a choice in how we live. What we can choose is our attitude, but that makes all the difference.

    God bless!

    Thank you for sharing.

  7. @vapor_sage says:

    When I was in the Navy, I found myself, in the self-inflicted predicament, of restricted to the ship with extra duty. I then discovered that Joy/happiness is a choice, regardless of circumstances. Surrender, acceptance, gratitude and, as you suggest hope all contributed to my unassailable liberty of spirit. Thank You again Cookie for piquing my memory about that time.

  8. SLIMJIM says:

    Still praying for you and your father.

  9. KD Manes says:

    Beautiful post . . . . Happy Birthday to your Dad and prayers for both of you.

  10. Lynda says:

    What a gift you are to your dad! Giving him all the chocolate he wants and celebrating with hats and blowers! Those are lovely photos and will be great memories for you. Would have enjoyed a morsel of that cake myself. Blessings and prayers as always.

    • Thanks Lynda–,oday was a stalk contrast– really really bad – hallucinations, grave agitations, words with no sound—on top of all of this we had a breaking last night in our detached garage at 1am– so scary now is even my attempted rest

      • Lynda says:

        Julie, I have no words other than to continue to pray for you. I’m going to mass in a few moments and will put your name into the Book of Prayer Intentions. They are not prayed for individually but all the intentions are prayed for at each mass. May today be a better day for you!

  11. Oh bless your heart! Of all the times for someone to try to break into your garage!! I’m so sorry. It does look like you all managed to give your dad a very nice birthday despite your immense fatigue and weariness of spirit! Hang in there sweetie! Love and hugs, N 🙂 ❤

  12. Melissa Presser, Writer says:

    Thank you for letting us in Julie…

  13. oneta hayes says:

    So the celebration has begun. When the count is down here, it begins anew there. You are doing so much good, Julie.

  14. lorriebowden says:

    Julie…I can’t express in words how much this post means to me right now…on this day…this moment! Thank you is all I can say ❤

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