As seen on a rural church sign:

It’s not happy people who are thankful…
It’s thankful people who are happy

(painting by Henry A. Bacon 1877 of Mary Chilton stepping onto “Plymouth Rock” /
Mary Chilton is my long ago relative)

Back in the early 1950s my grandmother, my dad’s mother, did extensive genealogy work.
She had her reasons and I confess that I am so grateful she did

It is because of her exhausting work that both my family, my cousins and I,
have a valuable gift of our lineage.

Lineage, that being the line from whence we come.
Even the Bible offers us the extensive lineage of Jesus—
We are also all a part of that same extensive lineage, yet that story is for another day.
Today’s tale is about a single family’s lineage and the gratitude for that lineage.

Now if you’ve read my posts regarding my adoption,
you know I actually have two family trees.

I have a biological tree that I know very little about.
And I also have an adopted tree, a tree and a people that have each embraced me
as their own.
It is a most extensive tree.

What my grandmother started almost 70 ago was no easy task.

She had to do a lot of leg work on her own as well as seek the help of many others.
She had to write a myriad of letters and make many personal phone calls to various state
record departments as well as to state historians in order to enlist their help in
researching her family’s past.

This was long before there were computers, databases, DNA Genealogy companies—
as archaic landlines were the standard norm.
Most calls were considered long distance…meaning you paid extra for long-distance calls.
But my grandmother was determined.

What she didn’t realize then, in her seemingly very personal quest, was
that she was giving her lineage, her grandchildren
one of the greatest gifts she could give.

That of a collective uniting history.

In those days there were no immediate connections, so her quest took time.

She had to request birth, death and marriage certificates.
She had to scour family bibles and records.
She had to have documents notarized and verified.
She traveled to courthouses.
She had to get the assistance of others in other states to visit distant courthouses
and churches and cemeteries in order to do a large portion of the digging.

For you see, my grandmother knew she had come from a line of people who
were important to the founding of this now great nation and she needed the proper
validation to be able to be granted the acknowledgment by such organizations as
The Daughters of The American Revolution, The Daughters of the Mayflower, The Pilgrims Society,
The Colonist Society, The Huguenot Society, etc.

This woman, who was born in 1896 in a small country town in the middle of the state
of Georgia, had actually come to be there by way England.

But from England, it was first to Plymouth…and from Plymouth, Massachusettes it was
to various towns in the colony of Massachusetts then to the city of Bristol in the colony
of Rhode Island, next, it was to the city of Savannah in the colony of Georgia
and finally to the tiny town of Molena in the state of Georgia…
but the final resting place was to be Atlanta, Georgia.

Her 10th great grandmother was Pricilla Mullins of London, England.
Pricilla Mullins was married to John Alden of Essex, England.
John was a cooper aka, a barrell maker.
John had a dream and Pricilla shared her husband’s dream.

They were on that fateful ship that we tend to remember each Thanksgiving,
just as we remember that first colony of Plymouth and of that first
celebration of not only survival but the beginning of thriving in a new land.

The Alden’s first daughter born on this new mysterious land was named Elizabeth–
the purported first white European girl born to the Plymouth Colony.

So yes, Thanksgiving is important to me on a family’s historical level…
but it is more important to me as a grateful American.

For it matters not how we came…be it those who were first here on the continent,
or if we came via Plymouth, a slave ship, Ellis Island or came with a visa in our
hand seeking citizenship…we have come…
We also have come in various shades of color.
Red, White, Brown, Black, Yellow…

We fought and died creating a new nation just as we’ve fought and died keeping her free.

It troubles me terribly that our society has developed a tendency to gloss over Thanksgiving…
basically jumping from Halloween to Christmas in one fell swoop…
But we can blame that on our obsession with materialism…
which is in actuality a loss of thankfulness.

Yet what is most troubling is that we now have many voices crying out that we rename this
day of thanks.
Some smugly stated that this is only a day of overindulgence and eating.
They claim Thanksgiving is not a day this Nation should recall let alone recognize.

One of our fellow bloggers, Citizen Tom, offered the following post regarding
our Nation’s Thanksgiving observation and celebration.

I highly recommend taking the time to read his post as it is a beautiful reminder
as to why Thanksgiving matters.


This from President Washington’s Thanksgiving Proclamation in 1789

Now, therefore, I do recommend and assign Thursday the 26th day of November next
to be devoted by the People of these States to the service of that great and glorious Being,
who is the beneficent Author of all the good that was, that is,
or that will be–
That we may then all unite in rendering unto him our sincere and humble thanks–
for his kind care and protection of the People of this Country previous to their becoming
a Nation–for the signal and manifold mercies, and the favorable interpositions
of his Providence which we experienced in the course and conclusion of the late war–
for the great degree of tranquility, union, and plenty,
which we have since enjoyed–for the peaceable and rational manner,
in which we have been enabled to establish constitutions of government
for our safety and happiness, and particularly the national One now lately instituted–
for the civil and religious liberty with which we are blessed;
and the means we have of acquiring and diffusing useful knowledge;
and in general for all the great and various favors which he hath
been pleased to confer upon us

19 comments on “Thankful

  1. Citizen Tom says:

    Neat post! Thanks for the link.

    Your post highlights the fact that real people worked hard and risked much to create this nation. Because of them, we have much to be thankful for (love that first quote).

    I hope my post is reminder of the faith in God that made our nation possible.

    Psalm 127 Good News Translation (GNT)

    In Praise of God’s Goodness

    127 If the Lord does not build the house,
    the work of the builders is useless;
    if the Lord does not protect the city,
    it does no good for the sentries to stand guard.
    2 It is useless to work so hard for a living,
    getting up early and going to bed late.
    For the Lord provides for those he loves,
    while they are asleep.

    3 Children are a gift from the Lord;
    they are a real blessing.
    4 The sons a man has when he is young
    are like arrows in a soldier’s hand.
    5 Happy is the man who has many such arrows.
    He will never be defeated
    when he meets his enemies in the place of judgment.

    I thought about dropping the last three verses, but why do we build things to last if not for the sake of our children? Why do we try to be good if not to give an example for our children? If not for our children, how could we know how much God loves his children? Without the knowledge of God’s love, how could we have faith in Him?

  2. Citizen Tom says:

    Reblogged this on Citizen Tom and commented:
    Because we must give thanks from the heart, thanksgiving is a personal act. Yet I rarely speak about myself. So, I am not good at giving a personal example. Others are more comfortable speaking about themselves. Therefore, for a personal example of thanksgiving I suggest Julie’s post.

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  4. says:

    Such a stellar legacy your grandmother left for her descendants. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours🦃

  5. oneta hayes says:

    What a treasured history! Interesting. Have a Great Thanksgiving.

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  7. GP Cox says:

    Family, friends, food, freedom and fun – it doesn’t get any better than this!!

  8. Tricia says:

    Thanks for this Julie, very nice. We share a bit of heritage too which I think we’ve discussed before. I have several relatives that came over on the Mayflower and survived long enough to participate in that first Thanksgiving. Me, I can barely take it when the temps drop below 50!

    So sad that so many have blinkered view of Thanksgiving and cannot see the blessings of our beautiful country.

  9. DeniseBalog says:

    I loved reading your genelogy. Thank you very much for sharing. As for me and my family we are Thankful for all those who came before us. May we never forget our heritage. God bless you and your family this Thanksgiving. 🍂🍁🙏

  10. SLIMJIM says:

    Wow I’m glad I read this. What a beautiful heritage. What a heritage and hard work by your grandma to piece it all together

  11. Happy Thanksgiving! So thankful for you. Blessings.

  12. Dawn Marie says:

    Wow! A beautiful tribute to family and fellow American’s alike! ❤️ Hugs to you for the wonderful link to Tom’s site too.

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