“Doctoring her seemed to her as absurd as putting together
the pieces of a broken vase. Her heart was broken.
Why would they try to cure her with pills and powders?”
Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina
(red grapes /Julie Cook / 2021)
What causes a heart to break?
What causes that overwhelming suffocating pressure inside
your chest when you realize that your heart is actually breaking?
Is it sorrow?
Is it loss?
Is it absence?
What is it that causes that deafening pounding inside one’s brain
while an unending flow of tears leaves an etched trail cascading
down cheeks?
Is it fatigue?
Is it distance?
Is it emptiness?
Could a grape break your heart?
The fact that the bag stated seedless grapes and yet they were full of seeds…
can that break your heart?
Grapes most likely will never break your heart…
But maybe it’s who was last eating those grapes…
Maybe, just maybe, that’s who can break that heart.
What about a can of diet Dr. Pepper?
Can a soft drink break you heart?
Doctors might agree that caffeine isn’t necessarily good for your heart
as it might just make your heart race, however the chances are that
that drink won’t leave your heart broken…
But maybe, just maybe, it’s the person who was last drinking that soda
who might break your heart.
So what about an endlessly hungry, bottomless pit, of a cat…can such a cat break your heart?
The incessant meowing of one who wants feeding at each and every turn,
might break your nerves, but most likely a hungry cat won’t break your heart…
Yet maybe, just maybe it’s the thought of who last fed the cat which
can break your heart.
And what of a stack of wine corks…
Can a random stack of wine corks break your heart?
Some agree that drinking wine might actually be good for your heart, it is however
doubtful that an idle stack of leftover corks would ever break your heart…
But maybe, just maybe, it’s the creator of that idle stack that might just
break your heart.
And so what of scent?
What of the lingering scent that remains from one who was, only moments
prior, holding you in their arms?
Does that remaining presence which is now woven into the fibers of your own clothing–
does that scent of that person who is now no longer physically present…can that
remaining scent break your heart?
Maybe.
It might just break your heart because you find yourself holding on tightly to your
own piece of clothing…burying your face deeply into that shirt while breathing
in as if your very life depended on it…trying desperately to catch a last lingering reminder
that love was indeed present despite a now empty and silent distance.
And so what about homework?
Can homework break your heart?
Homework…
There was a time when certain types of homework nearly broke my will…
but school work never broke my heart.
Yet what I am discovering however, is that the homework of learning how to accept Grace, allowing Grace to penetrate
into what was once perceived to be an undeserving soul…Grace that yearns to pry open and
break down one’s ancient walls…walls built to be impenetrable…yet walls that must succumb to Grace that is now being offered freely and graciously from one to another…is a lifeline that I never knew how badly I needed.
And so it now seems that that simple act of an offering of Grace can indeed break one’s heart…and more often than not, that breaking is agonizingly painful, yet it is also something most necessary if one hopes to push through this thing we call life.
And so my hope for you is that you too may also be fortunate—fortunate to find and to receive this gift known as Grace…
Yes, it might just break your heart, but that breaking just might be the only way you can find it and hold on to it.
“I have had to experience so much stupidity, so many vices, so much error, so much nausea, disillusionment and sorrow, just in order to become a child again and begin anew. I had to experience despair, I had to sink to the greatest mental depths, to thoughts of suicide, in order to experience grace.”
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As Psalm 51 reminds us, we can always receive a new heart and a right spirit when our hearts have been broken in any of these ways. J.
Truly so!
Wow! You are on a roll. Well written. As for the grapes, I am allergic to some part of the grape (Concord Grape juice will not stay down, eating grapes will cause my face to swell – as does the cat that you mention later). It may not break my heart, but I am not taking any chances. Wine is fine, but I have to ask why the golf tee is on top of the stack of wine bottle corks? Curious. I was about to make the comment about caffeine in one of my favorite beverages, but you mentioned that too. I am now testing myself with small portions of caffeine and my GERD does not tear me up afterwards, if in small quantities, but I had almost completely eliminated caffeine for about twenty years. I started the test when I drove down the highway on one and a half hours of sleep. I needed the caffeine.
That friend who was here and sadly had to go back to her home out of state— was being creative while sitting at the counter one evening as I was cooking and when I saw it later after she had left— I was caught up in the bittersweet of remembering and missing
Oh that we would all know the joy of loving so much that our heart can be broken by the absence of that person.
It is one of the hardest things yet something that is so linked to God’s love for us
I love that I am not the ONLY one who scribbles in their books. 🤣🤣
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