Be at peace with your own soul,
then heaven and earth will be at peace with you.
Who except God can give you peace?
Has the world ever been able to satisfy the heart?
St. Gerard Majella
(an apple gourd—who knew??? / Julie Cook / 2022)
Ten some odd years ago when I started this little blog…when I began taking up
a tiny bit of residence in this endless space known as the blogosphere,
my desire was to share my personal ramblings of that of both journey
and transition…I was a teacher for heaven’s sake…we share by the sheer
nature of our trade!
And at that time, it just so happened that my life was one big journey
There was the new transition and journey into retirement.
While at the same time there was the sorrowful transition of walking
from that of life to that of death’s door with both my dad and my aunt.
There was the journey of handing a child’s hand, turned that of a
man, to that of another woman’s hand…the passing of a torch so to speak
from one to another.
There was the discovery of a real biological past…complete with names and faces.
Yet there was the renewed rejection of a birth mother to that of her adopted child.
There was the eventual addition of two new joyous lives into my own.
The filling up of one’s heart…a heart that had just shortly before felt so
sorrowfully full of loss.
There was a pandemic.
There was a new retirement.
There was moving.
There was divorce.
There was loss.
There was unfamiliar.
And so now, as I stop for a bit of introspection and reflection,
I think my thoughts have shifted just a tad.
As in my axis has tilted just a wee bit off from its normal rotation.
I’m finding the notion of Peace…be that peace within, as well as peace outward,
to be a more immediate focus.
I think that’s why the following observation by Thomas á Kempis
has resonated so deeply within this restless soul of mine this evening.
I don’t believe that our dear brethren Thomas is inferring, as so many observers
quickly and most falsely assume of our Christian faith….
that being that we must suffer in order to eventually acquire peace…
but rather I find it all to be quite to the contrary…
It is the notion that we should seek peace amidst the chaos of
this life…a feat short of the miraculous given our current day and times..
We mere mortals will all eventually endure some sort of suffering in this
life—some, more it may appear, than most.
Fair or unfair as it may be….yet suffering, be it just or unjust, there
it will be.
And so therefore, it should be our task to seek peace within such times
and within such circumstances as we may be currently finding ourselves.
For it will only be in that Peace…that we may find rest amidst the storm.
For if we do not seek we will never find nor know that there is indeed a
Peace far greater than any turmoil life can throw at us…
And so now we begin a new journey of transition…that of Peace…
Will you come walk this path with me?
“You must first have peace in your own soul before you can make
peace between other people.
Peaceable people accomplish more good than learned people do.
Those who are passionate often can turn good into evil and
readily believe the worst.
But those who are honest and peaceful turn all things to good
and are suspicious of no one….
It is no test of virtue to be on good terms with easy-going people,
for they are always well liked.
And, of course, all of us want to live in peace and prefer those
who agree with us.
But the real test of virtue and deserving of praise is to live
at peace with the perverse, or the aggressive and those who contradict us,
for this needs a great grace…
in this mortal life, our peace consists in the humble bearing
of suffering and contradictions,
not in being free of them, for we cannot live in this world without adversity.
Those who can best suffer will enjoy the most peace,
for such persons are masters of themselves,
lords of the world, with Christ for their friend,
and heaven as their reward.”
Thomas á Kempis, p.72-73
You are well on your way. God is good …in every situation. We are blessed.
I’m truly sorry to hear about the divorce. God is faithful, His peace is beyond understanding. It faithfully shows up in the darkest moments. So many changes. Praying.
I’m learning that there is good to be found in change— thank you so much for your prayers!!!!
Ahhhh, I like it. Good post! I’ve also never seen an apple gourd before.
I didn’t think the gourd was real but rather a wooden carving— nope, they are a real thing!
Thank you IB
Glad to have our Julie back with us. She is my bridge to the intellectuals of the world – those who still have common sense.
I’m not so sure about the common sense but thank you Oneta 🥰
So heavy. Praying for you Julie. Sorry to hear about divorce. You have had such a journey and I’m glad you are on here in the blogosphere
Thank you Jim— never too old to learn new things I’m realizing ☺️
Yes, God’s peace is one that passes all human understanding…and it does not bypass us during times of grief and change because He IS our peace and He is with us always. Thank you for your candor and witness to our Lord’s faithfulness to you. God bless you!
Thank you ☺️
Thank you for sharing Julie. I will continue to follow…
Your journey transcends all understanding. I am so proud of you for fighting the fight and overcoming the obstacles. I can’t think of anything else that could possibly happen to you, dear friend, but I know the fight continues even to the end of our lives. May God strengthen you in knowing that He is always there for you.
Thank you for your transparent sharing of self, Julie. 😘 Your words often resonate in my own Spirit and this post is no different. 😊 I especially appreciated: “Peaceable people accomplish more good than learned people do.” May the peace of Christ remain with you as you continue to traverse through this newest transition. 🥰
Best suffer? I suppose that determining what that means — how to best suffer — and doing it is a large part of what it means to be wise.
May our Lord grant us such wisdom.
That apple gourd is a real puzzle.
Aah Julie in the midst of such searing trials it is said our mettle is tested.
By now u must be getting straight A’s as the hits just keep on coming….
Thoughtful post Juliet thanks for sharing. It reminds of the saying about turning to God while suffering. It’s not so much that He changes our whatever crappy situation we are enduring, but that he changes our heart about it and walks us through it.
Love the apple gourd! 😉
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