“Well I won’t back down
No I won’t back down
You can stand me up at the gates of hell
But I won’t back down”
Tom Petty

(my son’s 7th grade school picture shortly following 9/11–
the kids all made the small flag pin he has pinned to his shirt—we still have the pin)
How is it that we remember?
How do we mark those important moments in life?
How do we best remember them–both good and bad?
From the perspective of a parent, it is most likely by our children.
how old they were…
where they were…
what they were doing…
My son was in the 7th grade that fateful September day.
It was a warm Georgia, clear blue sky, kind of day.
With razor sharp precision,
we remember exactly where and when,
on those earth shattering days when tragedy strikes…
as life suddenly stands still.
Life stopped in time,
that New York, clear blue sky, fateful Septemeber day.
Life stopped in time,
that warm Pennsylvania September Tuesday morning.
Life stopped in time,
that typical September Tuesday morning in Washington D.C.
For thousands of Americans that September day,
life simply ceased.
Stopping forever for…
young and old,
male and female,
Black,
White,
Latino,
Asian…
For stopping and ceasing does not bother to discriminate nor separate.
Parents were suddenly gone.
Brothers were suddenly gone.
Grandparents were suddenly gone.
Sisters were suddenly gone.
Mothers,
Fathers,
Friends,
Husbands,
Wives,
Children
all suddenly gone.
With the breaking news…
those of us who were parents,
suddenly felt an innate urge to run and find our children.
It mattered not that they were at school, day care or with sitters
and that we were at work, or at school, or on business trips….
We wanted our children.
We wanted to run to them,
gathering them in our arms…
Wanting, needing, yearning to…
see them,
touch them,
hold them…
holding them close and tight in our arms—
reassuring ourselves that our small world was…
still safe,
still real,
still whole…
For thousands of Americans that clear blue sky Tuesday September 11th morning…
their worlds were broken…
forever…
for both those who were gone and for those who remained….
And the fact that those holes still remain in the hearts of those who survived…
or remain in those who simply remained,
left to carry on without those who they loved and still long to hold close…
that is something the rest of us must always remember…
Show us your mercy, O Lord;
And grant us your salvation.
Clothe your ministers with righteousness;
Let your people sing with joy.
Give peace, O Lord, in all the world;
For only in you can we live in safety.
Lord, keep this nation under your care;
And guide us in the way of justice and truth.
Let your way be known upon earth;
Your saving health among all nations.
Let not the needy, O Lord, be forgotten;
Nor the hope of the poor be taken away.
Create in us clean hearts, O God;
And sustain us by your Holy Spirit.
Book of Common Prayer 1979