“There is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends.
I have no notion of loving people by halves, it is not my nature.”
(the latest friend in the dammit family / Julie Cook / 2016)
Over the course of the past weekend, my son and his wife moved into their new apartment.
They did so with the help of group of friends.
Going from a house in the suburbs to a smaller apartment in the city will naturally take some adjusting,
however I think their level of excitement is far exceeding any need for adjustment.
I mention that they had a group of friends helping because that got me thinking.
Whereas my dear friends, or better yet mates, in the UK would naturally say
that it was my son’s mates who helped him out…
with mates referring to his friends,
I simply use the word friends…
All variances of semantics I suppose.
Yet when hearing the word friends referred to as mates,
I find that I actually prefer using the word mates as opposed to friends.
Friends come in all sorts of varying degrees of difference.
all of which constitute falling under the one umbrella of the collective word friends.
Some close, some really close, some not so close…
In my opinion however, the word mate, or the plural form mates, seems to refer to a tighter knit connection.
A closer level of familiarity and knowledge.
And when it comes to moving house—
especially with moving from a larger house to a smaller apartment almost 70 miles away,
it takes a really tight knit group of “friends,” hence mates,
volunteering their precious weekend time to drive back and forth,
hauling, lifting, toting, dissembling, reassembling the possessions of another….
As perhaps one’s mates come with a certain level of deeper commitment,
whereas ones friends fluctuate.
And of course in this country we refer to a spouse as a mate.
As in a pair.
As in a help mate.
As in soul mate.
As in a union of two becoming one.
So once again, mate having a tighter connection than just that of friend.
And as we so often refer to our Savior as our friend…
having the relationship with Jesus, as Lord and Savior is anything but that of a friend…
Despite hymns singing to the contrary and many who reference Him as their best friend…
there is difference between friend and God….
For the Xristósis, the Christos, the Anointed One, the Messiah, the Christ…
is far greater than that of friend.
He and His relationship with us, those who claim Him as God,
exceeds the confine of friendship..
Being both God and Spirit, as He is of the Triune Godhead,
He commands so much more than our mere friendship…
Rather He commands our awe and wonderment…
And our reverence and our homage.
For He is not a mere friend,
not even a mate…
but rather a Sovereign God…
A God who cares about both our physical and emotional wants and needs,
yet deserves our reverence, our wonderment, our praise, our worship…
It is good to have friends, even better to have great mates…
but most importantly it behooves us to have a Savior, who gave His very life
for each and every last one of us…..
But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners,
Christ died for us.